Changing the World in 3 Easy Steps

“GO AND MAKE DISCIPLES OF ALL NATIONS…” MATTHEW 28:19

I wonder what was going through the minds of the disciples as they received this great commission. I can only guess that someone had to change their pants afterward. Making disciples is an intimidating task. It was scary when I was a Lifegroup leader in college and it’s still scary as a pastor.

Yet, Jesus doesn’t leave much room for excuses. We are called to make disciples.Discipleship was the main strategy of Jesus and embodies the heart of the Gospel:

“As the Father has sent me, so I am sending you.” John 20:21

God has sent His Son into our lives, and we are sent to make an impact into the lives of others. No, discipleship is not easy- most things worth doing aren’t easy. But by God’s grace, it’s possible and totally worth it.

SO HOW DO YOU MAKE DISCIPLES?

I want to offer three simple steps that have helped me in the journey of making disciples:

1. BUILD AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIP.

The best discipleship relationships begin on the foundation of trust. Share your journey with them and hear their stories. Be yourself. Model vulnerability and talk about the sins and fears that Jesus has helped you overcome. I love Pumpkin Spice Lattes, but there’s no mention in Scripture of Jesus doing discipleship in coffee shop. Feel free to get out and live life with people that you’re discipling.

2. MAKE INTENTIONAL INVESTMENT.

Intentionality makes the dream a reality. Ask them how they want to grow and guide them there step by step. Impart the simple values of loving God and loving others. Read through a book together and talk about applying it to your lives. Antioch has several resources online to help teach Kingdom values.

3. GIVE A MISSIONAL CHALLENGE.

People are at their best when they have a vision beyond themselves. The person you are discipling has gifts and callings that the world needs. Help them discern their God-given callings and empower them to pursue it. Challenge them to serve, go on mission trips and make disciples.

After seven years of doing this, I’ve been encouraged when I’ve looked back and seen those I’ve discipled become missionaries, youth pastors, business leaders and worship leaders who are radically following Jesus and changing the world more than myself.

No, it’s not easy. But it’s totally worth it.

5 Christmas Ideas From The Sermon On The Mount

How should a Christian celebrate Christmas? Jesus gives this famous teaching where He describes the Spirit-led, heaven-focused life. It applies to all Christians throughout the year, but here are some specific insights for this Christmas season.

1. Shine Your Light. “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” (5:16). Here, Jesus exhorts us TO show others what Christmas is all about. This is not the season to be a closet-Christian. Be a bold, joyful witness this season and show people that it’s not just your personality- it’s an opportunity for them to glorify their Father in heaven.

2. Reconcile Relationships. “If you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift” (5:23-24). We can deceive ourselves into thinking this is a season about gifts, gifts, and more gifts. But if you stop and think about it, it’s not about gifts; it’s about relationships. That’s what makes this time of year so special. Which relationships do you need to reconcile? Don’t let pride get the better of you; get closer with family & friends this Christmas season.

3. Go the Extra Mile. “If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles” (5:41). Jesus gives some amazingly practical relational advice and it is particularly helpful during the holiday season. You will be asked to do things you don’t want to do (shop, wrap gifts, go to a certain party, family pictures), and those things provide a perfect opportunity to go the extra mile with someone. Serve joyfully and bountifully.

4. Give Secretly. “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you” (6:3-4). Christmas is a great time to give, and we are motivated by God who gave His only Son. This is a time when several non-profits, charities and churches need to pay their year-end bills. This is a time when those in financial and relational poverty can become discouraged. Let’s give to these needs. If able, I encourage you to visit World Vision’s Christmas catalog and give towards a specific need. And heed the instructions of Jesus, and DON’T TELL ANYONE. That’s right- don’t tweet about, don’t mention it casually at lunch- just give and let God be the only one to know!

5. Stop Worrying. “Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes?” (6:25). This holiday is filled with distraction. Christmas tends to involve large amounts of food, drink, and clothes. Here, Jesus reminds us that these material things aren’t worth the anxiety. As the late Corrie ten Boom said, “Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.” Stand firm this year to reject the influence of culture on your heart and mind, and be free to love God and love others.

How Your Friends Become Your Family

My first year of college was transformational, weird, and wonderful.

I had moved 12 hours away from my family to attend a college where I knew 2 people, in a state I had been to twice. It was terrifying yet thrilling.

But one of the most frightening things was walking into a dining hall as a freshman.

I would walk into a dining hall for lunch or dinner those first few months of college and become absolutely terrified. After surveying all the options, circling the dining hall a few times, then deciding exactly what I wanted, I would more often than not get my food to-go and eat it back in my dorm while watching America's Next Top Model. Dining halls were scary. They were filled with lines, and so many choices, and more intimidatingly, people I didn't know... who didn't know me, but seemed to know each other very, very well.

My first couple of months of college were filled with lonely meals. Not because I didn't have friends yet or because I was anti-social, but because I didn't know where my family was.

You see, I had spent the first 18 years of my life coming home from school and having dinner with my family. That's just how things worked in my house. Meals were connect times with people who loved me and wanted to hear about my life. And college was seeming to be a place where I'd have to go without them.

But there's a shift that happens that no one tells you about towards the middle of your freshmen year. You realize that you can still have your family. It's just going to look a little different now.

You have to allow your friends to become your family.

This wasn't an overnight thing for my friend group. It was a gradual thing that came after we had all subconsciously made some choices. And even now, as a young adult, I'm finding we still have to make these choices in order to keep having family. But as a young adult, these decisions must be way more intentional.

Looking back, I realize there were a few key decisions we all had made: 

1. We decided to eat together. It sounds simple, but there is something about having a meal together that bonds people. Shauna Niequist says it best: "When we stop everything else to gather around the table and eat a meal..., we honor our bodies and the God who created them... And in that moment we acknowledge that even though life is fast and frantic, we're not machines and we do require nourishment, physically and otherwise." You must make an effort to eat meals with your friends. Cook for them. Let them cook for you. Sit at a table with them and enjoy every bit of the meal and company that is placed in front of you.

2. We decided to be honest with each other. Enough with the word "fine." When someone asks you how your day is, believe that they actually want to know. They don't want to hear that your day was "fine." "Fine" is the most generic and superficial answer we can give. But when we choose to believe someone cares about our day, walls are brought down and family is formed. It allows bonds to be made that proclaim "I know the season you're in. I get it. I'm with you in it."

3. We decided to run errands together. My friend, Jeff, is a prime example of this. We became friends our first week of college, but he quickly became family. I'm pretty sure I ran more errands with him than any of my other friends... possibly even my real family; trips to WalMart, HEB, the mall, Jimmy John's, wherever. He became my brother because we were together and doing the boring, mundane stuff of life together. You get to know people really well after you take a trip to Target with them. And then I started thinking how different college would've been if I had run those errands alone. Don't run errands alone, friends. Drag someone along. Chances are, they need toilet paper too.

4. We decided to become texters. If you aren't a texter now, start becoming one. Some people are anti-group-text but I am ALL about them. It's an amazing thing to have a piece of communication where plans can be organized and everyone can be in on it. Yes, your group-texts will sometimes go off into rabbit-trails about the latest Iron Man movie or why creamy peanut butter is way better than crunchy. Just let it happen. While we’re talking about this, let me add - you should respond to texts! Send people "How's your day going?" texts. Be intentional. And yes, you have time for this. It takes about 15 seconds to send a text.

5. We decided to show up. It didn't matter who was initiating the hang out... it didn't matter if I knew 2 or 20 people there... it didn't matter if I had no interest in the movie we were watching or the restaurant we were going to...  if I was available, I showed up. As a "family", we became committed to celebration - the big and little things. We chose to mourn with each other when things were hard. We came to performances, dinners with parents, birthday parties, prayer times. We decided to be there... when it was most difficult, when life was crazy, when we were tired. We chose to be there.

6. We decided not to run away when things got hard. And things DID get hard. Disagreements were had. Breakups happened. Awkward conversations were braved. But we chose to press in when things got uncomfortable. We didn't stop showing up because things were awkward. We didn't stop showing up because we were offended. We had the hard, necessary, clarifying conversations. We tried our hardest to accept correction with humility and not pride. We stayed vulnerable. We forgave. We extended grace to each other in our messiness and mistakes. We learned how to do life together, not alone.

The key was pressing in.. being present.. acknowledging the now moments and living fully awake in them. It was being free from comparison by celebrating the accomplishments of another "family" member. It was realizing that each person, despite their own weaknesses, had something entirely unique that the "family" needed. It was loving the imperfections, walking through the mess, and allowing your friends to become one of closest families you've know.

- Courtney Gilliam, Young Adult Lifegroup Leader

How Do We Live Out Values?

Love God. Love Others. Make Disciples.

If you ever visit Antioch, you will hear us share those three values again and again. But if we're not careful, they can become mere words and not actual values. Our three core values aren't unique- you'll find them on most church websites. However it can be rare to see a community wholeheartedly live out these values. I believe that if our church lives out these simple three core values, then you will be changed, the city will be changed, and the world will be changed.

Our first value is the great commandment of Matthew 22:37 to LOVE GOD. We love, honor, worship God as first place in our lives. We live this out by spending consistent, daily devotional time with Jesus. We don't only love Jesus with our words, but with our time and energy. Put Jesus first. It's all about Him.

Our second value is the second commandment stated by Jesus in Matthew 22:39 to LOVE OTHERS. Looking to the needs of others gets us beyond ourselves and our issues. We consider others as more significant and sacrifice on their behalf. We live this out by being faithful to lifegroup community based on Acts 2:42-47. God designed us to walk in community and lifegroup allows that to happen.

Our third core value comes from the great commission in Matthew 28:19 to go and MAKE DISCIPLES. Jesus didn't rescue and redeem you just to sit on the sidelines- He made you to be a rescuer, He made you to go and impact others. We live this out by intentionally helping one or more others follow Jesus. Pour your life into another.

So, let me end by asking three questions:

1. Are you spending consistent devotional time with Jesus?
2. Are you faithful to lifegroup? Not just in attendance, but heart?
3. Are you discipling or pursuing discipleship with someone?

Be honest with these answers. Remember that God is strong where you are weak. And there is abundant grace for you to wrap your life around these three kingdom values- Jesus, community, & discipleship.

-Travis Nicholson, Associate Pastor